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December 15, 2011

$cityofrachels: clarri: cityofrachels: pizzarash: clarri: dirtyxygirl: You are not less queer, just less interesting to me. As a side note, I’ve understood bisexual monogamy. Granted, I can’t relate to monogamy in general at this point, but specifically in regards to bisexuals, I have a hard time seeing how you can just give up an entire gender for the rest of your life unless it’s really not that big of a part of your sexuality. I have an even harder time relating to monogamous straight partners of bisexuals who can ask them to give that up without feeling like a tremendous shithead. I mean, think about it. The person above said they have no doubt they’ll spend the rest of their life with someone of the opposite sex. If they’re monogamous, that means that getting together with their opposite sex life partner will mean the end of them enjoying sex with anyone of the same sex as them. Forever. For a bisexual female, wouldn’t that essentially put you in the position of saying, “Wow, I love girls so much! Can’t wait to meet a great boy and then never fuck a girl again!” That just seems weird and sad to me, but again, I don’t really understand monogamy. My life partner is sleeping a few feet from me, and I can still fuck and love whomever I want, and so can she. I can’t even begin on how dumb your argument is, so I’ll just give you this. *rubs temples and stares blankly at the screen* I…. you are really dumb. I identify as bisexual. I’ve been with men and women. In dating/being with both I have realized that if I were to settle down it will no doubt be with somebody who is cis-male. I just… it’s something that OP has obviously figured out along the way. OP is in the same boat/mindset as I am. To try to discredit their feelings is pointless and dumb. But…it’s just their opinion…I mean they even admitted they don’t understand monogamy… you’re defending someone else’s beliefs and attacking this person’s at the same time they aren’t hurting anybody they didn’t say anything mean chill out ‘You are not less queer, just less interesting to me.’ ‘For a bisexual female, wouldn’t that essentially put you in the position of saying, “Wow, I love girls so much! Can’t wait to meet a great boy and then never fuck a girl again!”’ ‘That just seems weird and sad to me’ hmm oh yes that didn’t make me feel like shit at all, the fact that someone out there thinks I am less interesting, weird and sad because I am bisexual and monogamous and would gladly dedicate myself to someone of the opposite sex for life if I loved them. If you don’t understand monogamy, that’s no reason to view people who are monogamous (the majority of human beings!!!!) as weird/sad/lesser. well uh that’s your fault for being so sensitive like why do you care what they think of you? are you close? do you even know them really? who cares this person wasn’t attacking you, they were just voicing an opinion, and i don’t see why you’d be offended seeing as you weren’t even addressed directly and if you don’t want to, you never have to speak to this person again. this is what makes sense to them and while it doesn’t make sense to you i don’t see why you can’t respect it and move on seeing as they weren’t even trying to hurt anyone or make them feel shitty for being bisexual they just voiced their opinion on someone else’s decision and that isn’t bad at all. oh ok next time I see someone saying ‘asexuality isn’t real, I just don’t understand it’ I should move right on along because I don’t know the person who said it and they don’t know me and they were just voicing an opinion and I’m being too sensitive for being affected by it. better let people be judgemental, it’s just an opinion. ok$

cityofrachels:

clarri:

cityofrachels:

pizzarash:

clarri:

dirtyxygirl:

You are not less queer, just less interesting to me.

As a side note, I’ve understood bisexual monogamy. Granted, I can’t relate to monogamy in general at this point, but specifically in regards to bisexuals, I have a hard time seeing how you can just give up an entire gender for the rest of your life unless it’s really not that big of a part of your sexuality. I have an even harder time relating to monogamous straight partners of bisexuals who can ask them to give that up without feeling like a tremendous shithead.

I mean, think about it. The person above said they have no doubt they’ll spend the rest of their life with someone of the opposite sex. If they’re monogamous, that means that getting together with their opposite sex life partner will mean the end of them enjoying sex with anyone of the same sex as them. Forever. For a bisexual female, wouldn’t that essentially put you in the position of saying, “Wow, I love girls so much! Can’t wait to meet a great boy and then never fuck a girl again!”

That just seems weird and sad to me, but again, I don’t really understand monogamy. My life partner is sleeping a few feet from me, and I can still fuck and love whomever I want, and so can she.

I can’t even begin on how dumb your argument is, so I’ll just give you this.

*rubs temples and stares blankly at the screen*

I…. you are really dumb.

I identify as bisexual. I’ve been with men and women. In dating/being with both I have realized that if I were to settle down it will no doubt be with somebody who is cis-male. I just… it’s something that OP has obviously figured out along the way.

OP is in the same boat/mindset as I am. To try to discredit their feelings is pointless and dumb.

But…it’s just their opinion…I mean they even admitted they don’t understand monogamy…

you’re defending someone else’s beliefs and attacking this person’s at the same time

they aren’t hurting anybody

they didn’t say anything mean

chill out

‘You are not less queer, just less interesting to me.’

‘For a bisexual female, wouldn’t that essentially put you in the position of saying, “Wow, I love girls so much! Can’t wait to meet a great boy and then never fuck a girl again!”’

‘That just seems weird and sad to me’

hmm oh yes that didn’t make me feel like shit at all, the fact that someone out there thinks I am less interesting, weird and sad because I am bisexual and monogamous and would gladly dedicate myself to someone of the opposite sex for life if I loved them. If you don’t understand monogamy, that’s no reason to view people who are monogamous (the majority of human beings!!!!) as weird/sad/lesser.

well uh

that’s your fault for being so sensitive

like why do you care what they think of you? are you close? do you even know them really?

who

cares

this person wasn’t attacking you, they were just voicing an opinion, and i don’t see why you’d be offended seeing as you weren’t even addressed directly and if you don’t want to, you never have to speak to this person again. this is what makes sense to them and while it doesn’t make sense to you i don’t see why you can’t respect it and move on seeing as they weren’t even trying to hurt anyone or make them feel shitty for being bisexual they just voiced their opinion on someone else’s decision and that isn’t bad at all.

oh ok next time I see someone saying ‘asexuality isn’t real, I just don’t understand it’

I should move right on along because I don’t know the person who said it and they don’t know me and they were just voicing an opinion and I’m being too sensitive for being affected by it. better let people be judgemental, it’s just an opinion.

(Source: queersecrets)

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